I'm no expert, but I think the dw connections to the north node are pulling you two together quickly. You both put your suns close to each other's nn, and that is significant. Plus your mercury on hers, and her mars on yours.
Are those Saturn moon DWs? That's binding. I have a hard time reading these types of synastry charts, but it looks like a Sun opp Venus, good attraction. But a Mars opposite Sun too? Again, initial attraction, but sometimes can lead to power struggles and arguing. I have had it before, but not in a romantic relationship.
The mercury opposite mercury could be interesting (had that one too with the same person I had sun opposite mars- we fought a lot, but there is still love), and the sun square chiron rough. Chiron asc could be healing or pain.
are both birth times correct?
in the composite, Neptune is opposite Sun and Uranus square Moon, so I would watch out for that. But your Mars Jupiter conjunction probably provides passion. And the Sun conjunct the nn in the first house gives you two purpose. I believe that indicates your goal in the relationship is to further yourselves, as individuals. And you have been given good opportunities with Mars and Jupiter also in 1st. That's my intuition, but hopefully someone else will come along and interpret this better.